Sabeena Ahmed with Brenda, Tvisha, Ashwarya, Padmini, Edwige, Deborah, Julia celebrating Fairtrade Fortnight Dubai 2019, UAE
INTRODUCTION
This year I decided to fulfill some long overdue ambitions and enrolled on a
play writing course.
My play was a collection of seven scenes highlighting experiences of discrimination, acceptance and love.
I'm passionate that BAME voices are heard on the international scene and this was my attempt to initiate a healthy dialogue about race, religion, misconceptions, acceptance and love.
I am grateful to Alex Broun, my peers and the Emirates Literature Foundation for guiding and supporting my work.
I wish all the ladies phenomenal success with their plays and writing.
Many thanks to Brenda, Tvisha, Ashwarya, Padmini, Edwige, Deborah, Julia and Andrea for their love and support on this beautiful journey.
Edwige at the Play writing Course with Alex Broun and the
Emirates Festival of Literature 2019 Dubai UAE
Tvisha, Ashwarya, Padmini and Julia at the
Play writing Course with Alex Broun and the
Emirates Festival of Literature 2019 Dubai UAE
Deborah, Brenda and Edwige a the
Play writing Course with Alex Broun and the
Emirates Festival of Literature 2019 Dubai UAE
Playright Alex Broun
at the
Emirates Festival of Literature 2019 Dubai UAE
Sabeena talks to the audience
Sabeena: My name is Sabeena and I’m trying to be a kinder and compassionate human being.
I'm a fair trade campaigner, educator and social entrepreneur.
Over the years I have encountered discrimination, criticism, total acceptance and love.
I’d like to share my experiences to promote a healthy dialogue, empathy and tolerance.
As a person of colour, I believe we shouldn't be labelled and stereotyped by our appearance, our beliefs, our command of the English language and the preservation of our beautiful cultures and traditions.
I’d like to be recognized for my passion, dedication and strength.
The scenes below were recited by all the wonderful ladies.
Scene Five
Evening Discussion
Characters
Mario
Robert
Sabeena
Robert is using his Smartphone
Sabeena is working on her presentation quietly
Mario is intoxicated and approaches S
Mario: Sabeena, I know there are thousands of women who are forced to wear the veil, the niqaab.
Sabeena: Turns her head to listen
Mario: I read that thousands of Afghan women are beaten and killed because they have to cover themselves. You have a huge problem with honour killings.
Sabeena: I have to disagree, I’ve never been pressurized. What do you mean, I have a problem?
If you care to conduct some research you’ll discover that the niqaab is cultural.
There is NO compulsion in Islam.
Mario: Why are Muslim ladies forced to wear the niqaab?
I hate it! It’s so degrading!
Robert joins the conversation
Robert: I think it’s beautiful that Sabeena covers up.
Mario (SCOFFS LOUDLY AND SNIGGERS LOUDLY)
Whaaaat! It’s horrible!
Robert: I’d like my wife to dress modestly.
Mario: (SCOFFS and SNORTS LOUDLY the looks at Sabeena up and down).
Are you serious? I’d hate my wife covering up. Everything is hidden.
Robert: Precisely! I would rather my wife covered up then reveal herself in public.
Mario: HA HA HA!
Ridiculous, I want to see some flesh.
Sabeena: Talks to the audience
I’d been insulted and humiliated. I just wanted to leave.
How could someone in such a senior role and position be SO IGNORANT?
It was Ramadan, I was tired, I’d been fasting , the subject of oppressed Muslim women was the last thing I wanted to hear before I retired for bed.
Mario knew nothing my background, my struggles, my hopes and dreams.
I was infuriated, but, kept my cool.
I patiently listened and quickly finished my Prezzi Presentation.
Mario continues his tirade against Muslim women. He drinks some more and slurs his words as he speaks.
Mario: I’ve read thousands of Muslim girls are forced to wear the niqaab.
It’s difficult for them to study and have a career or marry a man of their choice.
Sabeena: The niqaab is cultural, it is not mandatory to cover the face.
I know many single and happily married professional Muslim women who observe the niqaab and hijab.
The next time you visit Dubai, I’d be delighted to introduce you to them.
Out of curiosity how many Muslim friends do you know?
Mario: SNORTS and SLURS his words and ignores Sabeena’s question
But Muslim girls are very oppressed.
Sabeena: I’m a Muslim woman and I’m not oppressed. My husband supports and promotes my fair-trade activities.
Mario: But you’re a minority.
Sabeena: That’s all it takes, one person to be the change!
Robert: Ends the conversation. He can see the conversation has come full circle and Mario is repeating himself, upsetting Sabeena.
Robert: Well, we all have an early start at the conference tomorrow.
I’m heading up.
Sabeena: Yes! I’m exhausted too! I must rest. Good night!
Robert: Goodnight Sabeena
Mario: Goodnight
Sabeena: Talks to the audience
I’m so grateful Robert stood up for me that evening but what I’ve learnt over the years is to ignore and distance myself from negative people.
I can resonate with the quote by Mandy Hale.
‘The less you respond, to rude, critical and argumentative people, the more peaceful your life will become.’
And
‘I WILL NOT APOLOGISE FOR WHO I AM!’
Scene Six
Doctor Doctor
Characters
Dr A
Sabeena
Sabeena walks into the doctors room
Dr A is looking at her notes
Dr A: Hello Sabeena, How are you?
Sabeena: Hello Doctor, I’ve not been feeling very well?
Dr: What’s the matter?
Sabeena: I’ve been rather lethargic , low energy levels, I’m not feeling my usual self.
Dr: MMM! I can see you have Beta thalaseamia minor, I’d like to send you for some blood tests?
Are you sleeping, eating well?
Sabeena: No! Not really.
Dr: Why?
Sabeena: My mother passed away from metastatic breast cancer earlier this year. I’ve found the grieving process rather difficult to handle.
Dr: When did your mother pass away?
Sabeena: April
Dr: Is cold, un-empathetic and outspoken
Dr: Well you should be over it by now?
Sabeena: Is gob smacked and dumbstruck by the Doctors awful response, holding back tears
S: I’m sorry what do you mean?
Dr: Well, it has been six months, most people grieve for a maximum of 3.
Sabeena: Talks to the audience
Sabeena: I really wanted to shout at her.
I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry?
I’d spent the past 4 years of my life caring for my terminally ill mother and this is all the
EMPATHY and SUPPORT I got. Oh for heaven’s sake! Please go and get some bereavement training.
Sabeena: The conversation continues
Sabeena: Are both your parents alive Doctor?
Dr: Yes!
Sabeena: Is fuming but gritting her teeth
Sabeena: Well I’m grieving both of mine. How could you possibly understand what I’m going through?
Dr: Is not listening and ignores Sabeena
Dr: Would you like some anti-depressants to help you sleep?
Sabeena: No! I don’t want to be dependent on any medication thank you!
Dr: Okay! Would you like to see a bereavement counselor?
Sabeena: No thank you, I had a horrible experience at university.
Sabeena: Waiting for any apology that never comes and decides to leave.
Dr: Think about it?
Sabeena: Okay! I will. I must go, I have an appointment with God. Afternoon prayers. Bye!
Dr: Bye Sabeena. I’ll call you if I find any suitable counselors.
Sabeena: Talks the audience
I was so disappointed and upset at this Doctors un-supportive response.
When I got home I remembered the dialogue from Erin Brockovich and chuckled to myself.
‘Do they teach doctors how to apologise, cos you suck at it?’
This March my play was performed at the Emirates Literature Foundation.
Recitals of our plays were performed by actors Saturday 9th March 2019.
Many thanks to all the actors, audience and family members who performed and attended.
Sadly, due to technical difficulties I couldn't record all my scenes.
I'm grateful to Edwige for forwarding the following videos.
Introduction
Sabeena talks to the audience
Sabeena: My name is Sabeena and I’m trying to be a kinder and compassionate human being.
I'm a fair trade campaigner, educator and social entrepreneur.
Over the years I have encountered discrimination, criticism, total acceptance and love.
I’d like to share my experiences to promote a healthy dialogue, empathy and tolerance.
As a person of colour, I believe we shouldn't be labelled and stereotyped by our appearance, our beliefs, our command of the English language and the preservation of our beautiful cultures and traditions.
I’d like to be recognized for my passion, dedication and strength.
Scene 1
Scene One
The Careers Office
Characters
Careers Officer
Sabeena
Sabeena knocks on the career office door
Careers Officer: Come In! Take a seat, its Sabeena right?
Sabeena: Yes, Thank you!
Careers Officer: Shuffling of papers
Careers Officer: What do you want do when you leave school?
Sabeena: I want to be a forensic scientist.
Careers Officer: Big Sighs
Careers Officer: I’ve had a look at your predicted grades.
You don’t have the grades required to study sciences. Have you thought about BTEC courses?
Sabeena: No!
Careers Officer: Maybe you should think about applying for a BTEC in Childcare, Fashion or Business?
Sabeena: Disappointed
Sabeena: I want to be a forensic scientist.
Careers Officer: Why?
Sabeena: I’ve always been fascinated by the subject ever since the Police visited my old primary school and talked about criminology and forensics.
Careers Officer: Do you know the meaning of forensics?
Sabeena: Yes! It’s the study of crime scenes, dna and investigating the death of people from unusual circumstances.
Careers Officer: Ignores Sabeena and responds in cold uninspiring voice
Careers Officer: Your predicated grades for Biology, Chemistry, Physics and Maths, are B’s and C’s.You will struggle at A-level.
I seriously think you should re-consider your options.
Think about what I’ve said and let’s arrange another appointment to discuss your decision next month?
Sabeena: Bigger sighs
Sabeena: Okay!
Sabeena leaves the Careers Office heavy hearted and despondent
Sabeena: Talks to the audience
Sabeena: If I could travel back in time I would have said the following to the Careers Officer with a big smile on my face.
Thank you for your time and recommendations, however, I’m determined to qualify as a forensic scientist. I’ll take my chances and a take a leap of faith.
‘be an encourager the world has plenty of critics already.’
Goodbye! :)
Scene 3
Scene Three
Fairtrade Café
Characters
JJ
Bee
Sabeena
Bee and JJ are sitting at a table waiting for Sabeena. Sabeena Arrives and removes her niqaab.
Bee: Hello!
JJ: Hi!
Sabeena: Hello ladies! I’m Sabeena. Lovely to meet you. What would you like to drink?
Bee: A black coffee.
JJ: A café latte please?
Sabeena: Calls the waiter
Sabeena: Could we have a black coffee, a café latte and an English Breakfast tea with hot milk please?
The ladies sit down.
JJ: Thank you for meeting us at such notice.
Sabeena: No problem, it’s my pleasure.
I’m so pleased the American Women’s Association has taken an interest to support my fair-trade work.
Bee stares at Sabeena and talks angrily
Bee: You KILLED 3000 people on 9/11.
JJ: No response
Sabeena: Is taken aback but intrigued to learn more.
Bee: Raises her voice
YES! You people killed thousands on 9/11.
Angrily continues her voice rising
Bee: You MURDERED them!
Sabeena: What ME, Personally?
Sabeena: Is more intrigued
Bee: YES, YOU!
Sabeena: Talks to the audience
At this point I wanted to make a sharp exit. This isn’t the coffee morning I had in mind. Lord, give me strength!
Bee continues almost snarling
Bee: You people think you can get away with it! You destroyed thousands of lives.
You cause destruction and misery wherever you go.
JJ: Is listening intently but does not interrupt or stop her friend from speaking
Bee: Why are Muslim women always oppressed?
She stares at Sabeena’s hijab and abaya with disdain and disapproval.
You’re so oppressed and subjugated. You have to ask permission for WORK, RECREATION, TRAVEL AND WEAR CLOTHES.
It’s so depressing and a sorry state of affairs.
The atmosphere is heavy and toxic
Bee continues her monologue in an angry voice
Bee: Why do you always wear black? Why do you cover your faces? It’s so humiliating.
I could never do that. Why can’t you show your faces?
ISLAM IS SO RESTRICTIVE, MEN CONTROL WOMEN!!!
JJ: Makes no attempt to stop Bee from talking.
Sabeena: Talks to the audience
I wanted to run for the hills.
I was surprised and confused why JJ made no attempt to diffuse the situation.
Is Bee ever going to let me speak?
I didn’t sign up for this?
The conversation continues, Bee continues to vent her anger
Bee: We invited Muslim women to a coffee morning so that we could improve inter-faith dialogue and strengthen relationships.
The ladies just sat and ignored us. They made no attempt to speak or interact.
Bee: Rolls her eyes
IT WAS A DISASTER!
Sabeena: Talks to the audience
I thought I was being Punked?
I had to do something fast, I had to calm this lady down.
I took a deep breath and thought, You can do this Sabeena,
be brave, be strong, believe in yourself. You can turn this around.
Sabeena begins to talk clearly and calmly.
I was born and educated in Manchester.
I speak fluent English, Urdu and a little French.
I was an ESOL practitioner in London.
I taught Beginners English to asylum speakers and refugees.
I can introduce you to friends who are highly qualified professionals, articulate, and who observe the hijab and niqaab.
Would you be interested to meet them?
I’d be delighted to visit the American Women’s Association and talk about fair-trade.
Maybe, you’d like to become fair-trade suporter?
Bee: Listening intently, a little shocked by Sabeena’s statements and questions.
Bee: Okay!
JJ: You were a little a little harsh Bee.
Bee: Is silent but no makes no apology
Sabeena A waiter arrives with hot beverages and cakes.
Sabeena: Talks to the audience
I was relieved but emotionally drained. I needed a good fair-trade brew (cup of tea).
Sabeena: Here you are ladies.
The three eat/drink in eerie silence. JJ breaks the silence.
JJ: Well, it’s been lovely meeting you Sabeena.
Bee: We’d like to see your fair-trade products?
JJ: Would it be okay if we brought a few ladies over to your apartment next week to purchase some fair-trade products?
S: Yes, Absolutely! It would be my pleasure.
S: Talks to audience
Sabeena: I’ve never been so happy and relieved to go home.
The following week a group of 8 ladies visit Sabeena’s apartment and purchase fair-trade products.
Ashwarya one of the youngest playwrights
Ashwarya, Tvisha and Padmini
Edwige and Sabeena
Deborah and Andrea
Julia, Tvisha, Padmini and friend
Actors performing the plays with Alex Broun
Sabeena perfoming Ashwarya's play with other actors
Actors performing the plays
The happy playwright group
Playwrights with Alex Broun
Sabeena Ahmed, Deborah, Padmini, Brenda, Edwige, Tvisha, Ashwarya, Julia and Alex Broun, new playwrights at
the Emirates Literature Festival March 2019 Dubai UAE
This month my right shoulder is still very painful and I have struggled to record this vlog and type this blog.
This month I supported fairtrade fortnight 2024 and celebrated Fairtrade's 30th Anniversary.
Here is my Easy Fairtrade Cocoa and Fairtrade Bananas Recipe which I baked for Fairtrade Fortnight 2024.
I have tried my best to translate this recipe in Urdu.
یہ ہے میری ایزی فیئرٹریڈ کوکو اور فیئر ٹریڈ کیلے کی ترکیب جسے میں نے فیئر ٹریڈ فورٹ نائٹ 2024 کے لیے پکایا تھا۔
میں نے اس ترکیب کا اردو میں ترجمہ کرنے کی پوری کوشش کی ہے۔
This month I supported fairtrade fortnight 2024 and celebrated Fairtrade's 30th Anniversary.